Kate says: “The romantic equivalent of a Stannah Stairlift: secure and comfortable, but going nowhere. Next stop: Dullsville; population, you two.
“You might enjoy having someone to sit on the fence with, but it’s a false sense of security.
“At the first sniff of someone more exciting, you or your partner will be off.
“If you want to stay together, break out of your comfort zone.
“Have an opinion, rock the boat.
“It’s only when you see each other’s rough edges that you’ll know you’re a solid fit.”